Describe in detail the consequences you
might expect for the children and families with whom you work while you
experience specific “-ism(s)” in your own life.
Include specific examples either those you have and/or are experiencing
or ones you would anticipate.
An ism is the attitude and actions that surround
institutional advantages and disadvantages people experience due to their
membership in certain social identity groups (Derman-Sparks & Edwards,
2010). The ism that I have experienced
most of my life is racism. My earliest
recollection is from primary school while riding a bus that carried predominantly
Caucasian children to school. I was ridiculed
for being African American on a weekly basis.
As I grew older, I began to feel that our world was ruled by what was
known as “White America”. I felt this is
why my father insisted that all of his children do well in school and go to
college to get a good education. We were
told that knowledge was something that could never be taken away from you and
could take you places. So we did as we
were told…my siblings and I all went to college, graduated, and got pretty good
jobs. However, I can tell you that there
are some who live in our society that believe education, respectfulness, and
human courtesy does not count for anything.
If you ever thought that racism was dead, I am here to tell you that it
is alive and kicking!
I was hired
two weeks ago as a first grade teacher at a primary school. The school serves a predominately African
American population with a poverty ratio of about 80%. Because of the number of children in the
first grade classes, the Principal was allocated money for an additional teacher. A parent of one of the children who will be
transferred to my class wanted to know if I was Black. She was told that I was an experienced
teacher with 16 years teaching young children and taught previously in a
District that was known for receiving excellent marks on the state report
card. She was also told that I came
highly recommended for the position from my previous supervisor. However, the parent was only concerned about
her Caucasian child being taught by an African American teacher. She also went as far to say that the only
reason her child was attending this school was because most of the teachers
were Caucasian. When the Principal first
told me of the situation I felt as if I had been slapped in the face. Here we are in 2012 and it doesn’t matter how
well you do your job, how you nurture and inspire children to learn, but what
matters to some is what race you are. After
I got past the initial shock of what I was hearing, I knew that God put me in
this position for a reason. Will she and
her son be treated any differently? The
answer is no. I have always bent over backwards
to communicate with all of my parents and worked 150% for all the children I
serve. Her child will get the same love
and nurturing that all of my students receive.
As I do with all my parents, I will ask her to attend conferences and
school functions and see me with any concerns that she may have about her
child. I have already sent a welcome
home letter to all the parents letting them know how important it is for us to
work together. Racism continues to divide people and produce
social and emotional turmoil. As an
anti-bias educator my goal is to embrace diversity within my classroom by
making my students and families aware that we are all different, but we are all
equally important to society, our classroom, and each other.
Reference:
Derman-Sparks, L., & Olsen Edwards, J.
(2010). Anti-bias education for young children and
ourselves. Washington, DC: NAEYC.
First of all, congratulations on the new position! The sad reality is that racism still is, as you put it, "alive and kicking." I think it is so sad that even though people work hard, respect others, and make a great life they are still judged based on skin color. Your school and mine have similar demographics, and I have also experienced a similar situation. The majority of the children and teachers in my school are African American, and upon greeting a new student and parent, the mother stop and said something along the lines that her child could not be in a white teacher's class. He needed to be in a room with a tough teacher. I could not believe how loaded that statement was. How can a simple thing like skin color be used to define so much about a person?
ReplyDeleteI know this is going to be a tough journey (as was mine), but the way you are addressing this situation is wonderful. You are doing what is most important, putting the development of the child and the relationship with family as top priority.
Teresa, I really enjoyed reading your blog. unfortunately, I can relate to your post. We live in a whole new era, generation and things are still the same. I have learned to pray for others who dislike me because of the color of my skin. I'm so thankful to God that I have the opportunity to teach all children from all nationalities and have no certain preference as to who I teach. Continue to do a good job as a teacher because at the end of the day your reward would be the difference you have made in the lives of children and families who want to receive it. Congratulation on your new position.
ReplyDeleteCongratualations on your new position! Even though you have experienced negative thoughts from this certain parent already, I applaud you on not letting that get you down. You are taking the best approach by treating the child the same as if nothing happened. I wish all teachers could read your post and take this same approach.
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